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Sunday, 22 April 2012

Yes! Am Gifted By The Blessings Of ALLAH.

                                             (This writting is specially for my friends)




ALLAH sab ko nawazta hai.khushion sey naimaton sey aur achy doston sey.
it is well said that "it is really hard to find a True,Honest and Sincere friend"

but Alhumdulillah! I have.

MADHU: A true helper who support me in every good or bad situation who makes me feel independent who courage me.
XOPHY: who always guide me who show me the right path of every thing.for me she is a school school of fun.

XENU: A girl!!! actually a shadow of mine.a girl who understand me more than myself who knows my disaters+problems better than me. A true advisor of mine.

AMRI: A complete package of laughter for me.seriously! she can change your mood in seconds.a girl with the bundle of solutions.

SEHR: Girl! actually my dairy, with whom i use to discuss everything.who shows me the positive way of everything.

 

Girls you make my life sooooo precious for me.

you all work as an oxygen for me.

i really wanna say thanks to you because you all make me COMPLETE.

PARENTS: A Complete Institute

ALLAH gifted every child with parents
parents kehny ko kitna chota sa lafz hai per inhi mein hmari puri duniya hai.
your MOM is like your personal dairy who knows every single thing about you.chahey kitna bhi chupa lo woh sab jan jati hain.
your DAD, a true guidance , in every single path of your life he'll be there to giude you.
my MOM taught me difference between good and bad and still she is a teacher of mine and ABBU try yo fulfill my every single wish.
if you are wearing good say thanks to your DAD it is because of him.if you are having good and tasty food say thanks to your MOM.
parents who save you from your enemies and support you in every situation and wipe your tear till the end.
if you are happy and living your life with freedom and without tensions this is just because of your parents say thanks to them.

  "WOH HAIN TO MEIN HOON AUR MEHFOOZ HOON"

Wednesday, 18 April 2012

HAMARA MUSTAQBIL KYA HAI?


HAMARA MUSTAKBIL KYA HAI? AAJ KAL JO HAALAT HAIN US MEIN HUM APNE MUSTAKBIL KO KAHAN DEKHTE HAIN OR KIS TARHA DEKHTE HAIN.KYA HUM YEH SOUCH SAKTE HAIN K IN HAALAT MEIN HAMAR MUSTAKBIL ROSHAN HO SAKTA HAIN KYA HUM TARAQQI KAR SAKTE HAIN? HAMAR MULK BOHAT ACHA HAI IS NE HAMEN BOHAT KUCH DEYA HAI HAMEN NAAM DEYA HAI AIK PEHCHAAN DI. HUMEN FAKHAR HONA CHAHYE K HUM PAKISTANI HAIN LEKIN AGER HAALAT KO SAMNE RAKH KAR SOUCHA JAYE TO HUM YEH SOUCHNE PER  MAJBOOR HO JAIN GEY K HAMARE MUSTAKBIL KA KUCH PATA NAHI K KYA HOGA. HUM PAKISTAN KO BURA BOLTE HAIN K YAHA PAIDA NAHI HONA CHAYE THA TU HUM YEH GHALAT BOLTE HAIN HUM YEH NAHI SOUCHTE K PAKISTAN TO BOHAT ACHA HAI YAHA K LOGO NE IS KO BADNAAM KAR DEYA HAI YAHA K LOGO NE AISY HAALAT PAIDA KAR DEYE HAIN  K HER KOI APNE MUSTAKBIL KI FIKAR MEIN HAI. HUMNE JIN HUKUMRANO KO BETHAYA HAI UNHO NE HAMARA MUSTAKBIL TARREKH   KAR  DEYA  HAI.
 AB YEH HALAAT HAI K  KOI BHI SHAKS APNE BACHE KO TALEEM DELANE SE DARR RAHA HAI KYU K SCHOOL UNIVERSITY KI FEES ITNI HO GEI HAIN K KOI AASANI SE BARDASHT NAHI KAR PATA .WO APNE BACHE KO ACHI TALEEM KAHA SE DELWAYE GA TALEEM KO KAROBAAR BANA DEYA GAYA HAI  TALEEM DENE KA RUJHAAN NAHI HAI BALKY TALEEM K NAAM PER  PAISA KAMANE KA RUJHAAN BAN GAYA HAI TALEEM HI ACHE  MUSTAKBIL KI ZAMANT HOTI HAI JUB WO HI AAP K HATHON SE DUUR HO TU AAP APNE ACHE MUSTAKBIL K LIYE KYA SOUCH SAKTE HO. AAJKAL HER KOI ABROAD JA K TALEEM HASIL KARNE KA KWAHISH MAND HAI KYU K USKO MALOOM HAI K YAHA SE TALEEM HASIL KAR K TAREEKH MUSTAKBIL HI MILE GA JO  K  YAHA K HAALAT HAIN. AAP KHUD DEKH SAKTE HAIN KYA HO RAHA HAI SEYASAT K NAAM PER LOOTA JA RAHA HAI AUR JO LOG QABIL NAHI HAIN UN KO ES TARHA NAWAZA JATA HAI K JO SAHI HAQDAAR HAI WHO TARAP JATA HAI K MEIN ES SE BEHTER HON OR ES SE  BEHTER KAR SAKTA HON LEKIN US K PASS KOI RASTA KOI MADAD KARNE WALA NAHI HOTA.
OR TALEEM K MEYAAR KO ITNA KHARAB KAR DEYA GAYA HAI K TALEEM K NAAM PER MAZAAK HO RAHA HAI OR TALEEM KA MAZAAK URAYA JA RAHA HAI  AB TU AISA LAGTA HAI K TALEEM HASIL KARNE SE BEHTER  HAI K KOI KAAM SEKH LIYA JAYE  US SE 2 WAQT KI ROTI TU HASIL HOGI LEKIN AB TU 2 WAQT KI ROTI BHI HASIL  KARNA  MUSHKIL HO GEI HAI.
YAHA PER HAQDAROON KA HAQ MARA JA RAHA HAI AUR JO HAQDAAR NAHI HAIN UN KO NAWAZA JA RAHA HAI ES SE ZAYADA TAREEKH MUSTKBIL OR KYA HO GA HAMARA BHI AUR PAKISTAN KA BHI KYU K PAKSITAN KO TO TAREEKHI MEIN DEKHEL DEYA GAYA HAI DESHATGARDI K NAAM PER OR JO YAHA KI AWAAM HAI US PE  BHI TAPHA LAG GAYA HAI K YEH DEHSHAT GARD HAIN JUB KISI PER  DEHSHAT GARD KA TAPHA LAG JAYE TU USKA MUSTAKBIL ROSHAN HO SAKTA HAI. KYA .......
PHIR TO WO LOG THEK HAIN JO ABROAD JA KAR APNA MUSTAKBIL ROSHAN KARNE KI SOUCHTE HAIN KYU K WAHA UN KO UMEED  HAI KUCH TO MEHNAT KA SILA MILE GA PAR YAHA TO AAP KO AAP KI MEHNAT KA SILA MILNE KI UMEED NAHI HAI.
AAP  KYA SOUCHTE HAIN?

Tuesday, 17 April 2012

WHEN I SPEND MONEY ON...


Some people say that it is better to enjoy your money as soon as you earn it while other prefers to save the money for later. It’s difficult choice faced by lots of people because of the different attitudes they hold towards money. As far as I am concerned, I vote for the former choice, which is that better for one to enjoy his or her money as soon as it is earned. Spending money as soon as possible in my preference because of three reasons as follows.
First, we can observe easily in the modern society that the dominant philosophy nowadays is ‘enjoy your life when you are still young’. Most young adults like to work for a period of time and they go on for a trip to visit some places they have never been to. Those trips not only help them to keep in shape but also provide them different kinds of knowledge and new perspective in looking at their environment. Other people spend the money for their leisure, which helps them to relax and go back to work with enough energy.
In the old days, it is said that people who save money in a bank understand the philosophy of thrift. Actually, economists say that in the modern world saving money in bank is the quickest way to lose it. Moreover none of the rich people became rich by getting interest from the bank. Living in a constantly changing world, we should adjust ourselves to accept the new ways of investing our money to different areas in order to get the most of it. That is probably the reason why most of the people nowadays put their money into business to get a better payback.
The third obvious reason why I prefer spending money rather than saving them is that it is a part of the contribution for the economic growth in our country. If nobody has the needs to buy stuff from other and the market, nobody will think about how to produce useful products and sell them to make the most profits. Some countries continue to lower the interest in order to force people to spend their money and therefore benefit the society as well as the people themselves. In this broad view, I prefer spending money rather than saving them.
In conclusion, I prefer spending money because it benefits ourselves as well as people around us. It’s also important for kinds to know how to save money as a sense of thrift. Nevertheless, spending money is still the best way to make our lives enjoyable and worthwhile.

WHEN I FEEL FRUSTRATED


If  you're feeling frustrated, you're normal - but that doesn't justify your feelings because, as we will discover, normal people are crazy. In addition, the things that are frustrating you - from a difficult boss to a difficult relationship, from your business that you think is going nowhere fast to your apparent lack of ability to lose weight - are no excuse for your frustration either. The key thing that you've got to understand is that your frustration is a figment of your imagination, the product of useless thought. And, as normal people, we're really good at thinking useless thoughts. Most important of all, if you give in to your frustration, you'll probably give up on what you think is a lost cause and prove to yourself that you were right to feel frustrated in the first place! After all, given the way our minds work, life is a string of self-fulfilling prophecies.
The normal mind is plagued by fifty thousand thoughts each day. Many of them are harmless, some of them give rise to stupid distraction but some of them are toxic. These self-defeating thoughts well up from our subconscious mind which, psychology tells us, is the part of us that creates our self-image and view of the world and, as a consequence, dictates our behaviour. In doing so, our subconscious quite literally creates your life. The subconscious is home to all your perceived inadequacies and it is these that command the greater part of its focus. It is from this well of discontent that seriously useless thoughts, like frustration, come to the surface. In other words, it is not outside events or people that frustrate you - you frustrate yourself. This is the key problem that I want to address.
As I already said, frustration is a trick of the mind - it is the concrete result of you paying attention to the useless thoughts that give rise to frustration. The useless thoughts that we all guard jealously in our subconscious mind are the product of the things that we learned about life in general and ourselves in particular during our formative years. As such, these useless thoughts are never likely to simply vanish into thin are - they are part and parcel of the human condition. However, as a responsible adult, you can choose whether or not to pay attention to these thoughts - in other words, it's time for you to take responsibility for your own state of mind.
As a child, you were expert at focusing on the present moment. If you have or know young children you will understand the extent to which they can easily become fully absorbed in whatever it is that they're doing. A three-year-old opening his or her Christmas gifts uses all of their senses to fully experience the moment - the gift is rattled, smelled, tasted, examined from every angle - the experience leaves no room for attention for anything else. You must regain your childlike ability to see, feel, hear, smell and taste the reality of the moment, even if your apparent reality is one that annoys you of frustrates you. Remember, those feelings have been added to the real reality of the moment by your otherwise preoccupied mind.
The sooner you start your 'focus training' the better. So, after reading this, take a few moments to close your eyes and simply listen to the sounds - the sounds of present moment reality. Each morning you should take a few minutes to pay attention to what each of your five senses, in turn, are telling you. If you start the day in this way, you set yourself up for a completely different experience from the normal day that the normal crazy person creates for themselves.

ARE YOU TRULY HAPPY



Are you truly happy? Do you even know what it means to be happy and what it takes to achieve happiness? These are important questions for anyone who is seeking happiness to ask themselves. I live my life to maintain my own happiness while trying my best to not cause unhappiness to anyone else. If you want to be happy you need to understand that you can be happy and that you should be happy. Many people make the mistake of believing that they don’t deserve happiness and accept their unhappy state as their destiny. The truth of the matter is that happiness, like anything else in life, needs to be nurtured. The following are a few tips that I follow to create happiness in my life.
  1. Understand what it is that will make you happy. Everyone has unique requirements for attaining happiness and what makes one person happy may be very different from what makes someone else happy. Revel in your individuality and do not worry about whether or not your desires are comparable to those of your peers.
  2. Make a plan for attaining goals that you believe will make you happy. Your mood will very likely increase as your pursue your goal because you will feel better about yourself for going after something you value.
  3. Surround yourself with happy people. It is easy to begin to think negatively when you are surrounded by people who think that way. Conversely, if you are around people who are happy their emotional state will be infectious.
  4. When something goes wrong try to figure out a solution instead of wallowing in self pity. Truly happy people don’t allow set backs to affect their mood because they know that with a little thought they can turn the circumstances back to their favor.
  5. Spend a few minutes each day thinking about the things that make you happy. These few minutes will give you the opportunity to focus on the positive things in your life and will lead you to continued happiness.
  6. It’s also important to take some time each day to do something nice for yourself. Whether you treat yourself to lunch, take a long, relaxing bath or simply spend a few extra minutes on your appearance you will be subconsciously putting yourself in a better mood.
  7. Finding the humor in situations can also lead to happiness. While there are times that require you to be serious, when it is appropriate, find a way to make light of a situation that would otherwise make you unhappy.
  8. Maintaining your health is another way to achieve happiness. Being overweight or not eating nutritious foods can have a negative effect on your mood. Additionally, exercise has been known to release endorphins that give you a feeling of happiness.
  9. Finally, it is important to understand that you deserve happiness. Those who believe that they are not worthy of happiness may subconsciously sabotage their efforts to achieve happiness. If necessary, tell yourself each day that you deserve to be happy and remind yourself what steps you will take to achieve the happiness you desire.
Happiness is hard to define but most people are aware of whether they are happy or not. Many people believe that happiness is a form of luck and that some people are destined to be happy while others are destined to be unhappy. I try to incorporate the tips above into my life and have had great success in achieving happiness. The tips in this article are small but meaningful steps that you can take each day to lead you to true happiness.